This is my fifth dialoge.
Aya: Hey, mum. So, yesterday I was thinking about the next vacation. And I've decided to fly to America. It's always been my dream, and now I'd really like to fulfill it. What's your opinion?
Dat: I don't allow you to go! You're waaay to young to fly away on your own. No way, you can forget it. Maybe you'll be allowed to when you're about 18 years old, but not now.
Aya: Oh, please, mum! I'm begging you! I'm old enough to take responsibility for myself. All of my friends were in America by themselves. So now it's my turn! It'd be such a nice experience!
Dat: No, can't you just wait about 4 years? It's too dangerous to go now. Maybe you'll get kidnapped. Or something bad happens to you.
Aya: Well, in case I get kidnapped, I still have the opportunity to call the police. And if I'm in a hotel and something bad happens to me, they'll call the hospital. So, where's the problem now?
Dat: I'll be worried sick about you, the whole time! I know that you really want it, and I hate to tell you this, but it's too risky.
Aya: But I'm willing to learn something about America, I want to see all those cool things there, for example landmarks and stuff. You can't stop me, because it's my decision and I'm old enough.
Dat: When I was younger, we didn't even think about it, because it was crystalclear that our parent's wouldn't let us make vacation on our own. And I can stop you, because I'm your mother and you can't pay for it!
Aya: So you have no idea that I've been saving money for 2 years now? I have a lot, and I can pay for myself.
Dat: Alright, you convinced me. There's still a catch though. You will stay there for 4 days, and you'll pay for it.
Aya: Oh, snap! I was hoping that you change your opinion and give me the money. But it's okay. I really appreciate that you let me go, and I know it was hard for you to agree.
Dat: It was. But please call me everyday, so I can be sure that everything is alright. Or else I won't be able to sleep at night.
Aya: Thank you! Of course I will.
This is a dialoge about Mobbing. It's a topic that we're maybe gonna have for the oral exam in English next Wednesday.
Aya: Hey, Aya. What's going on? Why do you look so sad?
Dat: Well, maybe because I am sad? I'm getting picked on at school. There's a boy in my class who is always abusing me. The whole time he's trying to make me feel bad and getting me down. The problem is, that the other boys are all on his side. I really want him to stop, I've asked him hundrets of times, but he was like: 'Well, I don't care what you want.'
Aya: Did you speak to a teacher of you? I think they can help you best. But I'm willing to help, too. So tell me your problem and I'm gonna try to make you feel better and maybe talk to this person that is bullying you.
Dat: Alright. But what should I do? Should I pretend to be someone I'm not just to fit in with these boys? What advice do you have?
Aya: You should know that it's something that we all have to deal with. Even though it's sometimes really hard to ignore the things they say, it shouldn't affect you. It's definitely nothing to take personally. Just don't let it get you. The reason why people pick on other people is that it makes them feel strong, but deep down they know they're not.
Dat: But it's so hard. The last time for example I was sitting in the classroom and then he came across and said really hurtful things about my grades this year. You know, my grades are horrible, but that's not the point. I was really sad, because I know that my grades are not good, but it's not his problem!
Aya: Maybe something is going in his life and he thinks that he has to make other people feel bad so he can feel better. Bullying is something that is really hard to deal with.
Dat: I know that it doesn't matter what people think about me. But can't he just leave my alone? I don't need him in my life. But obviously he has no hobbys so he needs to make other people feel bad. That's so pathetic.
Aya: Does he pick on other people?
Dat: To be quite honest, yes. So many girls in my class are getting picked on by him. And some guys.
Aya: But where's the problem then?
Dat: I want to make him stop. It's frustrating. I hate him.
Aya: Life is too short to have hatred. The best advice I can give you is that you should ignore it and don't let it get you.
Dat: I'll try. And I'll tell the other girls. Thank you so much for helping me.
Aya: I love helping people. You're such a nice girl, you don't deserve to get picked on.
Aya: Hey. I've decided to go to a Casting Show. I've been thinking a lot about this topic lately, and now this is my decision. But before I go, I'd like to hear my best friend's opinion, because it's important to me that there are people who believe in me and support me. My Parents agreed with it. Now it's your turn to give your blessing to me.
Dat: Do you really want to hear my opinion? *nod* Oh my gosh, I hate to tell you this, but I have to, I guess. I don't want to advice you against it, but I wouldn't recommend you to go to the Casting Show, since the people there are amazing at singing and you... Well, not so. But it's your decision! I just don't want you to disgrace yourself in front of such a huge audience!
Aya: So, you think I'm terrible at singing? Just give me a chance to prove my talent. You've never listened to my voice. Like, I got so many compliments, and now my whole confidence is ruined! Thank you very much. But you can't stop me. I made my decision. And I won't change it.
Dat: Damn, I didn't want to hurt your feelings, I just want to avoid a catastrophe! Maybe you'll get stage fright. Who knows? And your voice isn't horrible, but still not the best. You have to improve before you go. I'm just willing to help you, because you're my best friend and I care about the things you do.
Aya: But it's been my dream for ages! Since I was a little child I've been dreaming of being a star. And I think that my voice is good. That's all that matters. I've got nothing to lose.
Dat: The judges are gonna laugh at you, and you'll lose your pride forever. I'm afraid that you're gonna be disappointed if they don't take you. And it's your well-being that is important to me.
Aya: Are you kidding me? The judges are going to love my voice! I mean, I'm thankful that you care about me. But you have no idea. I'm really professional! I won't be disappointed. If they really don't take me, I'll look for another way to become a star.
Dat: You're way to confident for your voice. I don't want you to go. But if you do so, I'm gonna support you as much as I can, though I don't understand why it's so important to you.
Aya: Thank you very much for saying this. I really appreciate that. Now there's nobody else that I need to convince about my idea of becomig a star. It feels great.
Aya: Hey, I've found an articel on the internet telling that there's a great audition which you can go to. The one that wins the Casting Show will get a huge part in a really famous movie. What do you think?
Dat: I don't think that I want to go there. Because I'm always pretty nervous and I'd rather hang out with my friends than go to a casting show.
Aya: But you will be famous! I believe in you and in your talent. You're so great at acting!
Dat: Yeah, I'm flattered, thanks. But that's what you think. It's not like that. I want to be doctor later on. It's just your dream that you want to come true, it's not mine though.
Aya: I really don't think that you're smart enough to be a doctor.
Dat: You have no idea if I'm smart or not, you don't give me the time to study, it's always like "there's an awesome casting show for you." But I know that I'm smart so stop doubting.
Aya: Just give it a try! If you do so, you'll be really rich one day.
Dat: I can also be rich if I go to medical college, Mum. I'm sick and tired of fulfilling YOUR dreams, what about MINE?
Aya: But I know that you want it! You just think that you're not good enough, but I'm telling you, you are!
Dat: Mum, PLEASE I'm begging you, I don't want to go... I've been on soo many auditions lately, I'm exhausted..
Aya: But darling, I'm doing it for you. I want you to have a good future.
Dat: So you think my future will be bad if I study?
Aya: No, I don't, but that's an easier way. It's an opportunity you won't get back.
Dat: But not the right way for me. Oh Mum, you're so reckless!
Aya: You'll regret it, if you don't go. But okay. In the end, it is your decision and I can't force you to go.
Dat: Thanks mum, I really appreciate that.
Aya: I'm so disappointed, since you're never willing to go to an audition because of the fact that you want to be a doctor..
Dat: I'm sorry. But I can't do it.
Dat: Hey, how are you doing? I've heard that you and your best friend are fighting. What happened?
Aya: That's an easy question to answer. This stupid little thing is trying to steal my boyfriend!
Dat: But you guys aren't a couple and you know that!
Aya: No, I know that he actually loves me and not her. And I love him too! I'm so mad at her!
Dat: Oh, calm down. She's your best friend. A friend stays your entire life, but there are lots of other guys on this planet that you can fall in love with.
Aya: But I can't forget about what she has done to me. I've trusted her, and then she took advantage of the fact that I'm in love with him!
Dat: Maybe she's in love with him, too. You don't know that. Maybe it was really painful for her to know that you guys are almost a couple.
Aya: I know, she obviously IS in love with him. So what? He loves me and not her. I'm sick and tired of all those pretenders! When I realized that she loves him, I completely freaked out!
Dat: But if you are so sure that he loves you, why are you so upset?
Aya: Because it's irritating me! How can someone that is always telling you that you are his soulmate and best friend forever, do something like that?
Dat: You can't blame her for loving someone.
Aya: And what about my feelings? Do you have an idea what I am going through right now?
Dat: That sounds really selfish. You're the one that is actually acting like a bad friend. If you were a good friend, you wouldn't talk like that and maybe have a little bit of sympathy.
Aya: It's so frustrating that I lost my best friend... I have the feeling that I've lost both of them and I really feel bad about it.
Dat: Either you go to her and say that you're sorry about the things you've said, or you'll lose your best friend forever. And trust me, you will, unless you go to her and say that you don't want to fight anymore.
Aya: And what about the guy I love?
Dat: I don't want to offend your taste, but in my opinion he's really ugly! And I didn't want to say this, but he's actually a show-off that I can't stand. Always bragging about everything he owns..
Aya: I didn't know that. Whatever, I can't love someone that is like this. After you told me this, everything is crystalclear to me now. I'm gonna dump him immediately. Thank you so much for telling me this, you're a really good friend and I appreciate that.
Dat: I'm always willing to help. If you need someone to talk to, just come to me.